Fixing Psychology

A blog about problems in the field of psychology and attempts to fix them.

Sunday, May 10, 2015

Explaining the "Gay Marriage" controversy in the U.S.

Many of my friends and colleagues in other parts of the world are having a really hard time wrapping their head around the continued controversy in the U.S. regarding "gay marriage." And by that, I mean, "marriage" open to same sex couples, not some new magical thing that has never existed before. Such marriages are so accepted in many other countries today, that these friends think it is simply a requisite part of being a modern nation, and see current legal controversies in the U.S. as evidence that we are morally stuck in the dark ages. Maybe we are morally stuck in the dark ages, but I don't think this controversy is as straightforward as that makes it sound. I am not advocating either position below, just trying to explain the depth of the controversy.

The issue is not, fundamentally, about hating homosexuals. Most Americans have reached the point where they don't much care what other people do in their bedrooms. Yes, there are people who think it is indecent for homosexuals to "flaunt" their relationships in public, but much of the U.S. is conservative enough that they find any public displays of affection distasteful. The core disagreement regarding gay marriage is about the type of situation that marriage is analogous to.

What do the progressives think?
Those who are more progressive in their thinking see marriage as something much like any of other legal agreement. Selling a house is a good example of a contract that requires extensive legal work and has significant consequences. Let's say a single person has a parent who is helping them buy a house. Is there a reason for me not to sell my house to a son being helped by his father (two men)? No. Is there a reason for me not to sell my house to a daughter being helped by her mother (to women)? No. Ditto for selling it to a same-sex couple. Why should I care if it is two men or two women signing the dotted line to enter into a legal agreement? Once they co-sign for the mortgage, and co-sign for the house, there lives are legally intertwined in some pretty complicated ways that are hard, but not impossible to undo. It is a pretty significant commitment. If we were going to allow that, why would we stop them from signing on the dotted line to enter into the legal entanglement we call marriage? The only reasonable answer, that these people can come up with, is because the opponents to same sex marriage are bigots.


What do the non-progressive thinks? 
Those who are against same sex marriage think marriage is less like a legal contract and more like a baptism. Sure, lots of religions perform baptisms, but not all religions recognize other religion's baptisms. A Catholic might not recognize a Mormon baptism or vice versa. Don't get me wrong, a Mormon does not deny that a Catholic went through a Catholic Baptism Ceremony, but that doesn't mean they are recognized as baptized in the Mormon faith. Among other things, so far as I understand it, Mormon baptism (similar to several other Christian sects) requires a conscious choice to participate, and so it would not be relevant if you were "baptized" as an infant. Though most Christian sects play nice with each other these days, one can easily imagine that members of some Christian sects would be unwilling to take part in a more unusual baptism ceremony, for example one involving speaking in tongues. One can even imagine (because they exists) other religions with baptism ceremonies that most Christians would not want to take any part in because they would see participation as sacrilegious. Some Christians would see it as their religious duty to try to stop others from taking part in such ceremonies, others would simply not want to take part, and none would want to be legally compelled to deal with someone differently as a result of their taking part in such a ceremony, because that would logically entail forcing them to recognize such baptisms as legitimate.

No, this analogy is not a stretch. I have been to more than one marriage ceremony where it was asserted that the marriage being created was, "A metaphor for Jesus's relationship with the Church." They were not saying that Jesus's relationship to the Church was metaphorical, that was the real thing, the enduring thing. The marriage was a metaphor, it was fundamentally a religious ceremony with religious connotations and creating religious obligations. At one of the ceremonies, at least, the woman who made the cake was a member of the Church where the ceremony took place, who had known the bride since birth. For her, making the cake was taking part in the ceremony. It was the embodiment of her joy for the couple, her well wishes for them, and her endorsement of their union as a fitting simulacrum of Jesus's relationship to the Church. For this woman, the act of making the wedding cake was not at all like making standard cakes to be sold to anyone who came in the door, or making a cake to bring to a potluck barbecue, it was, first and foremost, a symbolic and religious act; it was akin to custom-creating symbolic items for a baptismal ceremony.

So what now? 
I'm not saying that either point of view represented here is right or wrong, I'm just trying to explain the odd nature of this debate in the U.S., which might not be apparent to those outside. Many who think of marriage as akin to a baptism don't feel any need to stop same-sex couples from entering into legal contracts, even contracts with all the legal implications currently associated with marriage. But the word "marriage" for these people has primarily a religious implication, and they are not going to be convinced to view marriage as non-religious anytime soon.

I know many other countries have simply secularized marriage, and that might well happen in the U.S. However, in our context, both our legal context and our cultural context, the more logical solution, I would argue, is to separate marriage from the state altogether. We should have civil unions with the full legal implications currently associated with marriage, and we should have marriage ceremonies associated with whatever religion the participants are part of. The federal government, in this arrangement would have two clear obligations based on the constitution: 1) Ensure that consenting adults, regardless of sex, can enter into legal contracts, and see to it that such contracts are enforced without bias. 2) Ensure that people can have their religious marriage ceremonies in whatever way conforms to their deeply held beliefs.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Deep Thoughts: The Stomach in a Jar Problem



Many throughout history have wondered about the relationship between mind and stomach. Imagine, if you will, that your body had been almost completely destroyed. Imagine still, that whatever destroyed your body left your stomach remarkably unscathed, and that we put your stomach in a vat. But this vat is a very special kind of vat: It can give you stomach all the physical and chemical signals it would have had if the stomach had stayed in your body, and when your stomach does something, the vat reacts just as your body would. Your stomach could be kept alive like that for quite a long time, perhaps indefinitely. 



Something new for the blog: Deep Philosophical Questions

I've long followed a few online comics at a time. At the moment, I mostly check big players in the Pantheon of geek comics, such as XKCD and SMBC. Good, smart stuff, by ridiculously creative people. I also long followed Sinfest, PhD Comics, and still mourn the decade-old passing of (the original?) online shock-comic The Parking Lot is Full. More recently, I have really started enjoying ExistentialComics, enough that I even signed up to support the guy doing it. I would say 8 out of 10 are very good, which is an absurdly high hit rate for a comic that hasn't even had 60 strips yet (they are published once a week). Even more impressive given that it is written by a guy without formal philosophy training. Check out the Philosophy Tech Support, for example. I'm not sure I am capably of doing smart short-from highly-visual jokes common to xkcd or smbc, but the longer-form intellectual absurdity I got a shot at... so long as I don't pretend I can draw. (Well... I can illuminate medieval manuscripts decently well, but I don't think that lends itself to the web comic genera.)

At any rate, I am inspired. So, coming soon:
There will be a series of posts on Deep Philosophical Questions. Stay tuned for such classics as the Stomach in a Vat problem and the many mysteries of Twin-Earth, including the Zombie Sofas problem.

Other suggestions more than welcome. What classic philosophical debates do you think are absurd? Or, what do suspect might be absurd, but you have been waiting for the right analogy to make up your mind? 

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Libertarianism, Progressive Politics, and Humanism

Many around the world don't understand why American's like "Libertarianism," which they see as a weird brand of home-grown individualism. This might seem even more odd because the U.S. was, at many points, the seat "Progressive" politics. Some have claimed that the two groups are irreconcilable, while others have claimed that they make a natural alliance as the ideologies share crucial contrasts with the views of both of our two dominant political parties. That both Libertarian and Progressive views characterize U.S. politics can seem confusing, especially given the mythic origins of the movements. In the current myth, Libertarianism owes its origins to the enlightened selfishness of business tycoons, and Ayn Rand was a wise sage who showed us the benefits of their ways. However, while Rand surely influenced many prominent people who tout Libertarian ideas, she has little to do with the broad public support people show for similar ideas. We cannot understand why Americans embrace Libertarian ideas (I assert) unless we understand those ideas as grounded in American Philosophy---Pragmatism---as put forward by scholars like Peirce, James, and Dewey. I have speculated a bit about that here, and here. As a result I have been asked to prepare something for publication, and that requires being a bit more systematic. Here is the opening:

Thursday, October 30, 2014

Why Inferential Statistics - Part 1

I am preparing a handout for undergrad research methods students (in several departments), who are about to get 1-class-session tutorials in SPSS. I have 3 pages to give them enough information to understand what we are doing. Here is page 1:



Why Inferential Statistics?

Imagine we had a question: “Do men and women differ on X?”
No matter what “X” is—height, empathy, knowledge of 13th century Spanish history, or anything else—we know that any given man will be different than any given woman, but what we don’t know is how men “on average” differ from women “on average.” That is, when we asked our initial question, we probably wanted to know how the mean for men compared with the mean for women. But we will never know the actual mean for men or the actual mean for women, because that would involve measuring more than 7 billion people! So, we need to, somehow, get a sample of men and a sample of women, compare them, and draw a conclusion from that.

Why academic writing sucks - Part II

Before I start my academic writing challenge, I wanted to finish up a few things, including one more reaction from Pinker's paper on "Why Academic Writing Stinks". I keep coming back to one accusation Pinker makes about academic writing, one that struck particularly close to home: The idea that academic writing is flawed by virtue of being self-reflexive and by making its assumptions and their justifications clear. For example, apparently he would hate the fact that the book I am preparing on evolution and psychology considers whether we can sensibly talk about the evolution of psychological processes. My knee jerk reaction is "Of course I need to talk about that, the answer isn't obvious at all!" But then Pinker shows how undermining that type of writing can be, with a convincing (borrowed) example of a self-reflexive cookbook:

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Academic NaNoWriMo Challenge!

I am issuing a challenge to all my colleagues! For those who do not know, November is National Novel Writing Month (pronounced: NaNoWriMo). This is a great event that challenges participants to write at least 50,000 words in a month. (Over 400,000 people participated last year, including 90,000 K-12 students doing the youth challenge.) I do kind of want to write a novel... but I do feel the need to get my academic productivity kicked up a notch, and this is a good excuse. Trying this worked well for me last year, and I want to challenge others to join me this year. Keep reading for details.